Media Affects your Attitude

It's hard to live without media in our homes. We listen to music while we do chores, after that we watch TV or hop on our Xbox. We talk with friends via email, texting, and cell phone. all of these require electronic devices. These things are good and a privilege, but they also can become bad things.
A few examples are:

- The Internet.
The Internet is easy to access and is a helpful tool, but your mind may wander. you may end up were your parents might not want you to be, or see things that are not for the eyes of teens.

- The music we listen to.
Do you listen to up-beat music? This could affect your attitude towards your friends or your family. It may make you angry just because the music is loud, fast, or violent. I love to listen to country music. I listen to it when I do my chores, it helps me sleep, I listen to it when I do certain subjects in school(I'm home schooled.) As you can see, it involved in most of the things I do during the day. Country music can also be dangerous. You may listen to some "love" songs and become addicted and desire to have a girlfriend of boyfriend. Or worse.

- TV.
Televison is very entertaining and an easy way to kill time. There may be some shows or movies on that are not "clean" vocally, visually, and physically. Like the internet, you may see things that you should never have seen. you have to be careful.

-Video games.
Violence seen in video game may change your attitude towards people. First person shooters are one of the main games played in America. War violence is not the best thing to do much of. Just like like TV, seeing thing that are not healthy or good to see.

Please understand that I am not saying that you should stop using the internet or listening to music or playing video games. What I'm saying is that you should pay close attention to your attitude and see if what you're doing is affecting it. Just be careful about how you use these privileges.

Do you find any of the things you do on a daily basis affect your mood? Tell us about it in the comments below.
~ Randy

When I Was A Kid......

For our blog post today, we decided to do something a little different than usual. Instead of having some wonderful wisdom or insight about teen issues, we decided that, for today at least, we'd just name off some crazy stories.

But the twist? They're all from our parents. (These are anonymous to protect the not-so-innocent)

In college, my mom shot candy bracelets at people studying in the library. - A

My dad was point guard on his high school basketball team, and they won the state championship. - A

My mom used to volunteer for the vice division of her local police department, and helped undercover officers bust liquor stores for selling to minors. -A

My dad's first car was a a 1969 Mach 1 Mustang, that he got for his 18th birthday. He traded it for a pick-up a year later. -A

My mom once won a best legs contest at a bar... when she was 16. -A

My dad once mooned a whole city block, and got away with it. -A

My mom lived around the corner from Chuck Norris's first martial arts school. She also met William Shatner at a polo match and David Hasslehoff at the beach. -A

My dad set a tractor on fire by accident once. -A

My mom went to a Catholic high school... and survived. -A

My dad and his friends once replaced Mt. Dew with cow urine to stop a bully who stole their Mt. Dews... it worked -A

So yeah, ask your parents about their crazy days, you never know what they might have done.

Got Style? (For the dudes.)

You've all seen it in the movies, the magazines, or maybe just on your brother! Men can be just a stylish as women.

Men can be stylish too

We all have our dress preferences. I'm one of those guys that asks for clothes for my birthday, shoes for Christmas, and goes to Goodwill for good deals. Weird, huh? Maybe you're one of those guys that grabs a t-shirt and a pair of jeans and just doesn't care. Maybe you are well-built and wear just athletic apparel. If you're looking for a few different Ideas to shake things up a bit, you should take a look at a few of these tips.

1. Shoes

If you haven't noticed, Converse are pretty popular and have been for a long time. They are really cool but the disadvantage to those are that they are like walking on slab of wood! For Christmas I got a pair of Merrels flat bottoms. They have an air cushion so they are super comfy.

2. Shirts

In the winter, I LOVE to wear sweaters and flannels. Quarter zip sweaters are amazingly fashionable with my Merrels and a pair of jeans. pull the zipper up to about were the base of the neck starts. I always wear my flannels tucked into my jeans with a nice leather belt. American Eagle is a great place to get flannels and sweaters. With long-sleeve shirt, I always roll or pull the sleeves up the fore-arm just below the elbow. doing this make almost any long-sleeve shirt so much cooler.
Summer. In summer there is really no other things to wear except a t-shirt or rolled up long-sleeve shirt.

3. Pants 

During the winter there are not many kinds of pants to wear. most of the time I wear low boot cut jeans. I also wear flannel-lined brown jeans. Those make your lower body feel like its summer already! For summer, cargo shorts look great with a t-shirt or a long-sleeve. Since it's summer, sports apparel is great looking and is quick to match and put on.

I hope that this helped.

Let me know if you want to hear more. Because I can go on and on!

~ Randy    

Standing Out

Every teen, everywhere, has once felt like they were on the outside. Whether it was being the only one doing something, or being the cursed third-wheel. Well, here's my perception on standing out.

Standing out is not always a bad thing. Remember, everyone that became great in life stood out. Beethoven was deaf all his life, and now he is considered one of the best composers in history. Napoleon was the shortest kid in his school, but he grew up to lead a nation to conquer most of the known world of that time period. Thomas Edison burned down his father's barn in an experiment when he was a kid. Amelia Earhart was the first woman to fly over the Atlantic. All of these people stood out and that's how they became great. Because no one remembers the people who just fit in.

So you may be thinking, "But John, I don't know how to stand out. I don't know how to become OK with standing out." Here're a few tips to get you started:

1. Start Small

Don't start with burning your dad's barn down. In fact, don't do that. Ever. Start with something like, not doing something that other people do, like drugs.

2. Have A Goal

In the earlier examples, they all had goals whether to be the best or to make something people had never seen before. So set goals for yourself and strive to achieve them. This step in itself will help you to stand out for sure!

3.  Don't Compromise

People don't like other people standing out so expect some peer pressure. But don't give up because those that strive for greatness and don't quit are those that change the world.

4. Stay True To Yourself

If you stay true to yourself than you too can be considered great. Many want to blend in and hide, or change others into something lesser, but stay true and strive for greatness and you'll see how far you've come.

So it turns out, it's OK to be abnormal, even though that's impossible. Because every one is abnormal so to be abnormal is to be normal and to be normal is to be abnormal. There's some deep wisdom in there but I'm too tired to find it, so peace out!

-John Carter

Saying Goodbye

Goodbyes are hard. And what's even worse is missing someone after they're gone. We grow attached to people, we enjoy their company, and they can make a huge impact on our lives. Whether it's a pet you had to put down, or a friend who is moving away, missing someone can be really hard to deal with.
  In the past year I have had to say goodbye to a lot of good friends, and I struggled a lot with it. I'm ok now, but it took me a while before I was. I learned a few things, and here is what I can say to help you if you are missing someone.

#1 Be thankful.
  After saying goodbye to my friends, every time I thought about our adventures together I would get really sad and depressed, often times I would start to cry. But I couldn't help but to think about them because we shared so many good memories together, and thats something to be thankful for. Even though I would get sad when I recalled a memory or look at a photograph, I would still do it; Because even though they weren't with me anymore, I was thankful that they were at one point. I would much rather have had the time with them, no matter how short, than to never have had it at all. So instead of wishing back your time, be thankful that it ever happened in the first place.  

#2 Let go, but don't forget.
  Letting go was a big issue for me. I've always been one to dwell on the past, so I would always find myself wishing that I could rewind time and replay a certain part of my life again. But the thing is, we can't. The past is in the past, you can't change it, and you can't go back. Your life is still going on, and things are happening, so it's important to focus on the future instead. Find something that you are looking forward that is coming up and focus on that, and be thankful for the friends that you still do have in your life. But even though you are moving on, that doesn't mean that it's not ok to look back; That's what memories are for. But there is a time and a place for that, just make sure that the past isn't the only thing you think about.

#3 It takes time.
  This is probably the most important thing that I could say. It's going to take time before you can start smiling instead of crying, but that is ok. You're probably not going to get over it in a week, or even a month. You've heard it said that time heals all wounds, and it's true. It's ok if it takes a while. So just give it some time. 

In my experience these things have helped me, and I hope they can help you too! Let me know what you think or if you have any advice about something that has helped you when you were missing someone.

Thanks for reading!

~ Akila

Is It Really Worth The Worry?

One of the big questions running through my mind constantly right now is:

“What am I going to do with my life?”

I find myself worrying any time I see a college brochure, and biting my nails

every time I get I asked what I want to major in. If you feel this way, don’t

worry: I’m in the same boat as you.

 As much as the term ‘YOLO’ (You Only Live Once) irritates me, it does have some truth to it. Life isn’t suppose to be spent worrying about what’s going to happen tomorrow or the next day or the day after that. That doesn’t mean that we should just stroll through life carelessly, but it does mean we

shouldn’t be buried neck deep in fears about the future.

Now the next question is, “How do I stop worrying about the future?”

 I’m going to try my best to answer this question, but I honestly don’t have it completed figured out either. Here’s what I’ve learned so far:

#1 Delay the worrying.

 This may sound really stupid, but if you force yourself to wait by saying “Let me worry about this a month from now, because it isn’t going to happen for a while.” It’s easier to focus on living in the moment right now.

#2 Keep things in perspective.

 Take a look at some of your fears and ask yourself “How big of an effect does that really have on my life?” Try to look at things through different eyes and see if it is really worth your time to worry about.

#3 Focus on the stuff you do know.

 This is a tough one, because we often become so wrapped up in what we don’t know, we forget what we do. Try to think about a time in your life when you worried about something for days, months, maybe even years, but when I came it turned out to be not that bad. Remember that feeling of being completely wrong in your worrying and regretting spending so much time fearing this thing that turned out to be not that bad.

One of my main goals in life is to be able to be laying on my death bed and have no regrets; To be able to say I accomplished everything I wanted to. Maybe you have the same wish. I wrote this article to help you get a step closer to being able to say that. Let me know any comments or feedback you have! I would love to hear from you!

Thanks for listening,

Em&Em

Siblings: The struggle is real

Having siblings is like a never ending battle of who's better, everyone who has a sibling instantaneously understands what I mean. If you don’t have a sibling, consider yourself lucky, because having siblings completely sucks (especially when you are the opposite gender of all of them). As stated in my bio, I have three sisters Helen, Bethany, and Annabell. When I was younger, I would argue with one of them only to be tidal waved by the onslaught of counter-arguments made by sisters five to seven years older than me, or at least that’s what it felt like. I’m sure their side of the story is more than a little different.

                However, when I least expected it, one of my sisters surprised me. She made me miss her. She got married and left. Constantly, I found myself going to her room about to ask her to help me with something, just to find her gone. Now don’t get me wrong the awesomeness of moving the Xbox to my room was just that, awesome. However, now I rarely see my sister. So the next time you are complaining about your sibling, just think. In a few years, they may not be living with you. So enjoy them while they last.

-John Carter